it has taken some time for me to get back to u guys since my last blog...the main reason was my illness which put me down very badly...
Todays topic seems to be a different one from my previous posts...yea it is indeed different...i thought of giving a new idea to all my viewers..Already i have writen in my blog about friendship and in and out about it...this is also somewhat related to friendship but also can be discussed in a common point of view....
'WHEN FORGIVING BECOMES THE ORDER OF THE DAY',the topic itself implies that im gna discuss about some problem...i will not directly give out the problem but will definitely give an overview of the proble.When a person very very close to u does something really bad and which really hurts u...what will be ur reaction?....u cant tell him openly and also u can give him up in front of others..u will be in all kind of confusions...yea thats what happened to me too...A very close friend of mine due to some misunderstanding did a big mistake which affected me and also hurted me very badly for 1 whole night...i couldnt directly figure him out that u have done such and such a thing and also i cant let him down in front of others by scolding him...it was deadly killing me...but still talking would have solved the problem easily but myself ego didnt let me talk to him....i was unable to concentrate on any kind of work whole heartedly...but finally after a long period of silence he opened up and talked to me and as usual i had to forgive everything without any serious decision....whatever serious the problem maybe it mostly ends up in forgiving when it comes to close people...it was really a bad night 4 me...a big problem finally ended up in nothing...thanks for the mediator who is always between us as usual....
I just wanted to share this bcz dont let ur ego go in front of u wen it comes to ur friends or close people...forgiving solves problems easily...
