hy guys,it has been quite a long time since i posted my last semester.the main reason for that is that i am going through a hectic semester,which i never expected in life..but after all its just a part of life..
yea coming to todays topic "when responsibilities come your way"..RESPONSIBILITY is an important factor in life which has the power of either imroving your standards or put down ur standards..So for this reason many people fear of taking up responsibilities..responsibilities can be basically classified based on the place of occupation,that is the where the place we undertake the situation from..that makes the difference..IT may be in our family,your work place,your academic institution and etc...
To tell u guys a small story of my own experience..this is a different kind of experience which any of u wouldnt have experienced...When i was back in srilanka once my brother came to me and said that he is in love with a girl and wanted me to help him..i was totally shocked and wordless at that time...i totally had no clue of what to do...i really didnt want to put down him by saying no or any other negative thoughts...I accepted his call and helped him...at times i was more tensed than him regarding his affair because i had taken the responsibility of making it successsful...finally i made it a reality to him and he was the happiest man in the world..but beyond him i was also happy that i also had the capability of taking up responsibilities..
most of us think that responsibilities might put us down...thats completely wrong...responsibilities make us prove ourself in the society and also make others know our capacity...So please dont hesitate to take up responsibilites
c you soon with some interesting news which is under construction...adios
Wednesday, March 31, 2010
Friday, March 5, 2010
DECISIONS-making life meaningful
Hy guys,im back to you with yet another interesting part of life....As the heading mentions today im going to share something about decisions and decision making under pressure.
Really decision making is a skill which should be developed especially at the young age.Most of the decisions taken in the young age decides the path of our life.Its always hard to make decisions when too many options are available.But our talent depends on how we act according to the situation and make the correct move.its not only important to make the right decision,its also important to stand by our decisions.Our decision also depends on the influencing factors and people.
In my life so far I had to make many important decisions so far.But I think so far nothing went wrong in my decisions because today im in a successful situation in my life.I should always be thankful to ma parents who were always a part of all my successes.They never gave me any kind of pressure in making my decisions.It was all mine when it came to making decisions.The first major decision which I made in my life was regarding my subject selection for my 10th examination.It was purely on my wish and i am happy that it was successful.
The major decision in my life was made when I had to select my stream of subjects in order to pursue my higher education.It was always hard to take up that challenge.I had to spent alot of time in thinking about that decision because I wanted to make sure that it doesn't go wrong at any time which would result in a great tragedy.I made a hard decision but I made sure that i stood by my decision and finally I succeeded in that too.Then came the major problem..I think more problems come in life when u perform well when you are expected to do so.I wasn't an exception.Becoming a Mechanical Engineer was a long time dream in my life...When I was doing my schooling I had many options of places to follow my higher education...To tell you frankly India was never in my list of countries..But with time things changed and I also had to make up my mind and reduce my options.Finally I was left out with 2 optins..The first one was to wait for 1 or 2 years and find an university in a country of my choice and go ahead with my education and the 2nd one was obviously to go to India and join an University..I had a hard time in finding the correct option and finally I went along with the 2nd option for 2 important reasons..The first reason was my parents always wanted me to be in a distance that they can visit me at any time they wanted..especially my mom..The second reason was that I didn't want to waste time doing nothing till I get a uni...So without any hesitation I made a decision...Although at that time I made the decision without any hesitation still I have that feel that I couldn't make it to europian country.But still I make up my mind by telling that I will go abroad for my masters..As usual the next level of thinking should be always a step higher ryt:)
Still i am happy with things now..Because i am now studying in an atmosphere which doesn't seem to be new at all for me.Also i got alot of support here and guidance which once again makes it easy to make decisions.Above everything my parents are happy that im close to them and I will do so in future...because for me everything comes after my parents,even my future..
So guys coming back to the point Decision making is an art which should be developed only through experience..But always be careful about the influencing factors and also the people involved in that decision....
adios
Really decision making is a skill which should be developed especially at the young age.Most of the decisions taken in the young age decides the path of our life.Its always hard to make decisions when too many options are available.But our talent depends on how we act according to the situation and make the correct move.its not only important to make the right decision,its also important to stand by our decisions.Our decision also depends on the influencing factors and people.
In my life so far I had to make many important decisions so far.But I think so far nothing went wrong in my decisions because today im in a successful situation in my life.I should always be thankful to ma parents who were always a part of all my successes.They never gave me any kind of pressure in making my decisions.It was all mine when it came to making decisions.The first major decision which I made in my life was regarding my subject selection for my 10th examination.It was purely on my wish and i am happy that it was successful.
The major decision in my life was made when I had to select my stream of subjects in order to pursue my higher education.It was always hard to take up that challenge.I had to spent alot of time in thinking about that decision because I wanted to make sure that it doesn't go wrong at any time which would result in a great tragedy.I made a hard decision but I made sure that i stood by my decision and finally I succeeded in that too.Then came the major problem..I think more problems come in life when u perform well when you are expected to do so.I wasn't an exception.Becoming a Mechanical Engineer was a long time dream in my life...When I was doing my schooling I had many options of places to follow my higher education...To tell you frankly India was never in my list of countries..But with time things changed and I also had to make up my mind and reduce my options.Finally I was left out with 2 optins..The first one was to wait for 1 or 2 years and find an university in a country of my choice and go ahead with my education and the 2nd one was obviously to go to India and join an University..I had a hard time in finding the correct option and finally I went along with the 2nd option for 2 important reasons..The first reason was my parents always wanted me to be in a distance that they can visit me at any time they wanted..especially my mom..The second reason was that I didn't want to waste time doing nothing till I get a uni...So without any hesitation I made a decision...Although at that time I made the decision without any hesitation still I have that feel that I couldn't make it to europian country.But still I make up my mind by telling that I will go abroad for my masters..As usual the next level of thinking should be always a step higher ryt:)
Still i am happy with things now..Because i am now studying in an atmosphere which doesn't seem to be new at all for me.Also i got alot of support here and guidance which once again makes it easy to make decisions.Above everything my parents are happy that im close to them and I will do so in future...because for me everything comes after my parents,even my future..
So guys coming back to the point Decision making is an art which should be developed only through experience..But always be careful about the influencing factors and also the people involved in that decision....
adios
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