hi guys,it has been a long time since i published my last post...actually i was given some heavy tasks and had to fullfill them to make my name to be remembered by many...
I think so far i have discussed many topics related to 'MEANING OF LIFE'.So today's topic is also related to my last post but i hope to make it more interesting...
As i have mentioned it is not that easy to build a relationship with someone...it may be of the same sex or opposite sex,it is alwaysan interesting thing..Ihave had many experiences on this thing...Especially when we move onto a new place we really find it hard at the beginning to associate with people.It happens specially when you move on to a place with new culture and traditions..for example moving from an asian country to Europe country makes it always hard to make new relationships because we find it hard to adopt the new culture...
First of all when we meet a totally new person we usually dont feel like talking but surely want them to get introduced.....the interesting thing is that usually when a boy goes with another boy and meets a girl who is familiar to his friend,the boy definitely expects his friend to introduce that girl to him..thats the nature of youngsters...So usually when we try to build a relationship we should be patient..truly it is a time consuming task....it may take months to first make the person start talking to you freely...also you should not be too sensitive and emotional with a person who is new or just introduced....always should not keep on talking to him/her and make that person feel bored....Another thing that everybody should keep in mind when building a new relationship is that we shouldn't go deep in to that persons personal problems and details...we should make them come and tell us the problem...it really makes the relationship stronger and healthier....through experience i would like mention that the person with whom we plan to build a relationship should not feel that we r trying to get closer to him/her by any chance....and also if we feel that they are trying to avoid us,we should never go and ask them "Y?"...We should let them go on their own way and finally they will definitely reach us....So i think i have given u something interesting for the day...that's it for now...hope to write something on MILAN 2010 in the next post....bye for now
Thursday, January 28, 2010
Saturday, January 2, 2010
friendship-the meaning of life
At the moment im a student of the Srm University of chennai,India.In my period of 19 years in eart i hace had various types of experiences which make up my blog "MEANING OF LIFE".So far in my life I have spent more time with my friends more than anyone else..At every stage of my life Friends play a major role..Let it be school life or university life,they are the ones who make it meaningful and also keep me alive..
So its very important for me to tell about my friends in my blog which talks about life....In our life we meet various type of people at various situations.Not all of them make an impact on the bottom of our heart...those some who make an impact are the ones whom we dont want to forget throughout our lives and whom we really want to keep in touch....Similarly i also had various people crossing in my life right from grade one of my schooling life...those days we were not so exposed...so we used to do what our parents say.....my parents too are not an exception...every morning they used to advice me on how to interact with people and only to talk with friends....so at that age i didnt really know who good friends...so i went in search of people who study well....those were the good people for me at that time....to be frank i had a friend called senthooran who was really a close friend to me from the start and still maintains that relationship...i just dont want to miss such a character.......another person i should mention is naveenan...we three used to top the class at that time,but naveenan was not a character whom anyone will want to interact with...that was how he was brought up...so he is not responsible for that...i really feel sorry for him till now...then as we moved on 3-4 years at the great school of all,trinity college i understood whom i shud keep in touch with...i started to gain some exposure.....then came the new friends whom we all used to go around the places all time.....we just got the extreme fun out of the school life..especially when we were studyng in 9th 1oth and 11th classe....we just did everyhtng which came into our minds...starting right from imitating teachers,throwing eggs to teachers,not letting the teacher to take classe and specially one thing i would like to mention is the day when we all wanted to taste beer..finally we did that also in which i played a major role....then came our first division in school life...the ordinary level (10th) examination...we continued our fun journey to the exams too which i dont want to forget at all...then we were divided in seperate groups according to our professional streams...still we took the promise to stay together which we are following still..i eventually wanted to study in the english medium where i was put in with the sinhala students where i got another set of friends...especially to mention manilka who was one of my best friend....he was such a person who doesnt get tensed for anything at all...which is hard to do....then when i went for classes i had some other people crossing my life which i shud mention.....one girl kaviesthaa who made a great turning in my life.....my friends always used to kid me in front of her calling me by the name "kalla kaviesthaa" which created some affection in my bottom heart which i felt sometime after...one day she called my friend and adviced him not to kid me anymore..then i realised tht im dng smthng wrong.then i took it off from my mind..but still i cant forget those beatiful memories....
at the latter part of my shooling career came a great friend calle lakshitha who was one of a character rare to find.....i will never give up him for any cost....then moving onto uni life i have some great friends at srm who really made my life meaninful...satish,sharath,karthik,irfan and many more who make my life happening....mean while now at this matured age i also found some nice sweet sisters called ramla from india and gajani from srilanka who help me alot and i will also keep in touch with them
so far i have told about the great people in my life.....friendship is something which makes the life meaningful.....some say that friends get together to do all bad things in the world...thats totally wrong......we all get together to get those bad experiences which leads to a good life.....i need friends with me at all times.....i will not give up any of them at any cost....they make my life live and meaningful.......they got the power of doing that...so i would like to advice u all....please make friends and select them not on their performance just using their heart....finally "treat your wife/husband as ur best friend then life will definitely be great.......c u soon with some experience from srm
So its very important for me to tell about my friends in my blog which talks about life....In our life we meet various type of people at various situations.Not all of them make an impact on the bottom of our heart...those some who make an impact are the ones whom we dont want to forget throughout our lives and whom we really want to keep in touch....Similarly i also had various people crossing in my life right from grade one of my schooling life...those days we were not so exposed...so we used to do what our parents say.....my parents too are not an exception...every morning they used to advice me on how to interact with people and only to talk with friends....so at that age i didnt really know who good friends...so i went in search of people who study well....those were the good people for me at that time....to be frank i had a friend called senthooran who was really a close friend to me from the start and still maintains that relationship...i just dont want to miss such a character.......another person i should mention is naveenan...we three used to top the class at that time,but naveenan was not a character whom anyone will want to interact with...that was how he was brought up...so he is not responsible for that...i really feel sorry for him till now...then as we moved on 3-4 years at the great school of all,trinity college i understood whom i shud keep in touch with...i started to gain some exposure.....then came the new friends whom we all used to go around the places all time.....we just got the extreme fun out of the school life..especially when we were studyng in 9th 1oth and 11th classe....we just did everyhtng which came into our minds...starting right from imitating teachers,throwing eggs to teachers,not letting the teacher to take classe and specially one thing i would like to mention is the day when we all wanted to taste beer..finally we did that also in which i played a major role....then came our first division in school life...the ordinary level (10th) examination...we continued our fun journey to the exams too which i dont want to forget at all...then we were divided in seperate groups according to our professional streams...still we took the promise to stay together which we are following still..i eventually wanted to study in the english medium where i was put in with the sinhala students where i got another set of friends...especially to mention manilka who was one of my best friend....he was such a person who doesnt get tensed for anything at all...which is hard to do....then when i went for classes i had some other people crossing my life which i shud mention.....one girl kaviesthaa who made a great turning in my life.....my friends always used to kid me in front of her calling me by the name "kalla kaviesthaa" which created some affection in my bottom heart which i felt sometime after...one day she called my friend and adviced him not to kid me anymore..then i realised tht im dng smthng wrong.then i took it off from my mind..but still i cant forget those beatiful memories....
at the latter part of my shooling career came a great friend calle lakshitha who was one of a character rare to find.....i will never give up him for any cost....then moving onto uni life i have some great friends at srm who really made my life meaninful...satish,sharath,karthik,irfan and many more who make my life happening....mean while now at this matured age i also found some nice sweet sisters called ramla from india and gajani from srilanka who help me alot and i will also keep in touch with them
so far i have told about the great people in my life.....friendship is something which makes the life meaningful.....some say that friends get together to do all bad things in the world...thats totally wrong......we all get together to get those bad experiences which leads to a good life.....i need friends with me at all times.....i will not give up any of them at any cost....they make my life live and meaningful.......they got the power of doing that...so i would like to advice u all....please make friends and select them not on their performance just using their heart....finally "treat your wife/husband as ur best friend then life will definitely be great.......c u soon with some experience from srm
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