building relationships-meaning of life

hi guys,it has been a long time since i published my last post...actually i was given some heavy tasks and had to fullfill them to make my name to be remembered by many...
I think so far i have discussed many topics related to 'MEANING OF LIFE'.So today's topic is also related to my last post but i hope to make it more interesting...
As i have mentioned it is not that easy to build a relationship with someone...it may be of the same sex or opposite sex,it is alwaysan interesting thing..Ihave had many experiences on this thing...Especially when we move onto a new place we really find it hard at the beginning to associate with people.It happens specially when you move on to a place with new culture and traditions..for example moving from an asian country to Europe country makes it always hard to make new relationships because we find it hard to adopt the new culture...
First of all when we meet a totally new person we usually dont feel like talking but surely want them to get introduced.....the interesting thing is that usually when a boy goes with another boy and meets a girl who is familiar to his friend,the boy definitely expects his friend to introduce that girl to him..thats the nature of youngsters...So usually when we try to build a relationship we should be patient..truly it is a time consuming task....it may take months to first make the person start talking to you freely...also you should not be too sensitive and emotional with a person who is new or just introduced....always should not keep on talking to him/her and make that person feel bored....Another thing that everybody should keep in mind when building a new relationship is that we shouldn't go deep in to that persons personal problems and details...we should make them come and tell us the problem...it really makes the relationship stronger and healthier....through experience i would like mention that the person with whom we plan to build a relationship should not feel that we r trying to get closer to him/her by any chance....and also if we feel that they are trying to avoid us,we should never go and ask them "Y?"...We should let them go on their own way and finally they will definitely reach us....So i think i have given u something interesting for the day...that's it for now...hope to write something on MILAN 2010 in the next post....bye for now