hy guys
this is just a small post abt one f the happiest moments i ever had in life and tht too because of one of my friend....ya it was time for my dad's b'day and i had to get a something special for him as i couldnt stay with him for his b'day
suddenly an idea cracked in my mind to get a family photograph edited and framed....but wierdly i couldnt find a family photo(pretty weak in geting photos together)..but finally i found a photo with my dad and mom in it....the ideal and best couple i have ever seen in life....and my friend aghil gave a great hand in editing the photo which i couldnt do at all...thn lukily my friend azir who came to india for a visit did a great job in delivering it.....
AND U KNOW SOMETHING MY DAD WAS EXTREMELY HAPPY WITH IT AND I REALLY MISSED TO SEE THE SMILE ON HIS FACE....
LOVE U DAD
HOPE U HAD A GREAT B'DAY
MISSED U ALOT...
ADIOS
Thursday, October 28, 2010
Sunday, October 3, 2010
Hardworking doesnt payoff as soon as u do it
Hy guys
hope everything is fine with everybody....may god bless all of u with everythng
ya todays topic seems to a bit auckward compared to the others..i chose this particularly to share my experience with u ppl who are always with me 4ever....hardworking is something we all do in life....wt makes the difference is that only some of us do the hardwork with patience...that is where we get the edge over the others...we never get anythng on first attempt...even if we get it in first attempt we will not feel the value of it.....anythng that comes through hardworking will stay long....
when we take up some task in life and keep working on it,we will definitely face many obstacles and negative results which might make us even feel to drop that task...at that time if we drop that then there will be no value for our hardwork...its all a test for our patience.we should take it up..we should take the failures as stepping stones to success..more and more failures we face make our victory closer and closer..
clearing obstacles is not that easy...we should be patient enough to think before every step we take up on the process...i know it is not easy to do so..but only then we can feel the real victory...
my life has been full of challanges...it has not been an easy path i have walked in...it has been full of obstacles...maybe i myself made those obstacles instead of clearing everything easily...nothing came easy for me other than my parents who are my world till now and forever....may it be studies,sports,friends,etc.....nthng came easy....i mean the best came hard for me....especially friends it took me along time to find the best out of the lot...and still in process....i feel i have done the hardwork to earn the best lot of friends in the world....i keep them next to my parents bcz they are so worthy for me....
one small quote to end my post
'u wil not feel the real taste of a victory
unless
u no the taste of loosing'
adios
hope everything is fine with everybody....may god bless all of u with everythng
ya todays topic seems to a bit auckward compared to the others..i chose this particularly to share my experience with u ppl who are always with me 4ever....hardworking is something we all do in life....wt makes the difference is that only some of us do the hardwork with patience...that is where we get the edge over the others...we never get anythng on first attempt...even if we get it in first attempt we will not feel the value of it.....anythng that comes through hardworking will stay long....
when we take up some task in life and keep working on it,we will definitely face many obstacles and negative results which might make us even feel to drop that task...at that time if we drop that then there will be no value for our hardwork...its all a test for our patience.we should take it up..we should take the failures as stepping stones to success..more and more failures we face make our victory closer and closer..
clearing obstacles is not that easy...we should be patient enough to think before every step we take up on the process...i know it is not easy to do so..but only then we can feel the real victory...
my life has been full of challanges...it has not been an easy path i have walked in...it has been full of obstacles...maybe i myself made those obstacles instead of clearing everything easily...nothing came easy for me other than my parents who are my world till now and forever....may it be studies,sports,friends,etc.....nthng came easy....i mean the best came hard for me....especially friends it took me along time to find the best out of the lot...and still in process....i feel i have done the hardwork to earn the best lot of friends in the world....i keep them next to my parents bcz they are so worthy for me....
one small quote to end my post
'u wil not feel the real taste of a victory
unless
u no the taste of loosing'
adios
Wednesday, March 31, 2010
when responsibilities come your way
hy guys,it has been quite a long time since i posted my last semester.the main reason for that is that i am going through a hectic semester,which i never expected in life..but after all its just a part of life..
yea coming to todays topic "when responsibilities come your way"..RESPONSIBILITY is an important factor in life which has the power of either imroving your standards or put down ur standards..So for this reason many people fear of taking up responsibilities..responsibilities can be basically classified based on the place of occupation,that is the where the place we undertake the situation from..that makes the difference..IT may be in our family,your work place,your academic institution and etc...
To tell u guys a small story of my own experience..this is a different kind of experience which any of u wouldnt have experienced...When i was back in srilanka once my brother came to me and said that he is in love with a girl and wanted me to help him..i was totally shocked and wordless at that time...i totally had no clue of what to do...i really didnt want to put down him by saying no or any other negative thoughts...I accepted his call and helped him...at times i was more tensed than him regarding his affair because i had taken the responsibility of making it successsful...finally i made it a reality to him and he was the happiest man in the world..but beyond him i was also happy that i also had the capability of taking up responsibilities..
most of us think that responsibilities might put us down...thats completely wrong...responsibilities make us prove ourself in the society and also make others know our capacity...So please dont hesitate to take up responsibilites
c you soon with some interesting news which is under construction...adios
yea coming to todays topic "when responsibilities come your way"..RESPONSIBILITY is an important factor in life which has the power of either imroving your standards or put down ur standards..So for this reason many people fear of taking up responsibilities..responsibilities can be basically classified based on the place of occupation,that is the where the place we undertake the situation from..that makes the difference..IT may be in our family,your work place,your academic institution and etc...
To tell u guys a small story of my own experience..this is a different kind of experience which any of u wouldnt have experienced...When i was back in srilanka once my brother came to me and said that he is in love with a girl and wanted me to help him..i was totally shocked and wordless at that time...i totally had no clue of what to do...i really didnt want to put down him by saying no or any other negative thoughts...I accepted his call and helped him...at times i was more tensed than him regarding his affair because i had taken the responsibility of making it successsful...finally i made it a reality to him and he was the happiest man in the world..but beyond him i was also happy that i also had the capability of taking up responsibilities..
most of us think that responsibilities might put us down...thats completely wrong...responsibilities make us prove ourself in the society and also make others know our capacity...So please dont hesitate to take up responsibilites
c you soon with some interesting news which is under construction...adios
Friday, March 5, 2010
DECISIONS-making life meaningful
Hy guys,im back to you with yet another interesting part of life....As the heading mentions today im going to share something about decisions and decision making under pressure.
Really decision making is a skill which should be developed especially at the young age.Most of the decisions taken in the young age decides the path of our life.Its always hard to make decisions when too many options are available.But our talent depends on how we act according to the situation and make the correct move.its not only important to make the right decision,its also important to stand by our decisions.Our decision also depends on the influencing factors and people.
In my life so far I had to make many important decisions so far.But I think so far nothing went wrong in my decisions because today im in a successful situation in my life.I should always be thankful to ma parents who were always a part of all my successes.They never gave me any kind of pressure in making my decisions.It was all mine when it came to making decisions.The first major decision which I made in my life was regarding my subject selection for my 10th examination.It was purely on my wish and i am happy that it was successful.
The major decision in my life was made when I had to select my stream of subjects in order to pursue my higher education.It was always hard to take up that challenge.I had to spent alot of time in thinking about that decision because I wanted to make sure that it doesn't go wrong at any time which would result in a great tragedy.I made a hard decision but I made sure that i stood by my decision and finally I succeeded in that too.Then came the major problem..I think more problems come in life when u perform well when you are expected to do so.I wasn't an exception.Becoming a Mechanical Engineer was a long time dream in my life...When I was doing my schooling I had many options of places to follow my higher education...To tell you frankly India was never in my list of countries..But with time things changed and I also had to make up my mind and reduce my options.Finally I was left out with 2 optins..The first one was to wait for 1 or 2 years and find an university in a country of my choice and go ahead with my education and the 2nd one was obviously to go to India and join an University..I had a hard time in finding the correct option and finally I went along with the 2nd option for 2 important reasons..The first reason was my parents always wanted me to be in a distance that they can visit me at any time they wanted..especially my mom..The second reason was that I didn't want to waste time doing nothing till I get a uni...So without any hesitation I made a decision...Although at that time I made the decision without any hesitation still I have that feel that I couldn't make it to europian country.But still I make up my mind by telling that I will go abroad for my masters..As usual the next level of thinking should be always a step higher ryt:)
Still i am happy with things now..Because i am now studying in an atmosphere which doesn't seem to be new at all for me.Also i got alot of support here and guidance which once again makes it easy to make decisions.Above everything my parents are happy that im close to them and I will do so in future...because for me everything comes after my parents,even my future..
So guys coming back to the point Decision making is an art which should be developed only through experience..But always be careful about the influencing factors and also the people involved in that decision....
adios
Really decision making is a skill which should be developed especially at the young age.Most of the decisions taken in the young age decides the path of our life.Its always hard to make decisions when too many options are available.But our talent depends on how we act according to the situation and make the correct move.its not only important to make the right decision,its also important to stand by our decisions.Our decision also depends on the influencing factors and people.
In my life so far I had to make many important decisions so far.But I think so far nothing went wrong in my decisions because today im in a successful situation in my life.I should always be thankful to ma parents who were always a part of all my successes.They never gave me any kind of pressure in making my decisions.It was all mine when it came to making decisions.The first major decision which I made in my life was regarding my subject selection for my 10th examination.It was purely on my wish and i am happy that it was successful.
The major decision in my life was made when I had to select my stream of subjects in order to pursue my higher education.It was always hard to take up that challenge.I had to spent alot of time in thinking about that decision because I wanted to make sure that it doesn't go wrong at any time which would result in a great tragedy.I made a hard decision but I made sure that i stood by my decision and finally I succeeded in that too.Then came the major problem..I think more problems come in life when u perform well when you are expected to do so.I wasn't an exception.Becoming a Mechanical Engineer was a long time dream in my life...When I was doing my schooling I had many options of places to follow my higher education...To tell you frankly India was never in my list of countries..But with time things changed and I also had to make up my mind and reduce my options.Finally I was left out with 2 optins..The first one was to wait for 1 or 2 years and find an university in a country of my choice and go ahead with my education and the 2nd one was obviously to go to India and join an University..I had a hard time in finding the correct option and finally I went along with the 2nd option for 2 important reasons..The first reason was my parents always wanted me to be in a distance that they can visit me at any time they wanted..especially my mom..The second reason was that I didn't want to waste time doing nothing till I get a uni...So without any hesitation I made a decision...Although at that time I made the decision without any hesitation still I have that feel that I couldn't make it to europian country.But still I make up my mind by telling that I will go abroad for my masters..As usual the next level of thinking should be always a step higher ryt:)
Still i am happy with things now..Because i am now studying in an atmosphere which doesn't seem to be new at all for me.Also i got alot of support here and guidance which once again makes it easy to make decisions.Above everything my parents are happy that im close to them and I will do so in future...because for me everything comes after my parents,even my future..
So guys coming back to the point Decision making is an art which should be developed only through experience..But always be careful about the influencing factors and also the people involved in that decision....
adios
Friday, February 26, 2010
when forgiving becomes the order of the day
it has taken some time for me to get back to u guys since my last blog...the main reason was my illness which put me down very badly...
Todays topic seems to be a different one from my previous posts...yea it is indeed different...i thought of giving a new idea to all my viewers..Already i have writen in my blog about friendship and in and out about it...this is also somewhat related to friendship but also can be discussed in a common point of view....
'WHEN FORGIVING BECOMES THE ORDER OF THE DAY',the topic itself implies that im gna discuss about some problem...i will not directly give out the problem but will definitely give an overview of the proble.When a person very very close to u does something really bad and which really hurts u...what will be ur reaction?....u cant tell him openly and also u can give him up in front of others..u will be in all kind of confusions...yea thats what happened to me too...A very close friend of mine due to some misunderstanding did a big mistake which affected me and also hurted me very badly for 1 whole night...i couldnt directly figure him out that u have done such and such a thing and also i cant let him down in front of others by scolding him...it was deadly killing me...but still talking would have solved the problem easily but myself ego didnt let me talk to him....i was unable to concentrate on any kind of work whole heartedly...but finally after a long period of silence he opened up and talked to me and as usual i had to forgive everything without any serious decision....whatever serious the problem maybe it mostly ends up in forgiving when it comes to close people...it was really a bad night 4 me...a big problem finally ended up in nothing...thanks for the mediator who is always between us as usual....
I just wanted to share this bcz dont let ur ego go in front of u wen it comes to ur friends or close people...forgiving solves problems easily...
Todays topic seems to be a different one from my previous posts...yea it is indeed different...i thought of giving a new idea to all my viewers..Already i have writen in my blog about friendship and in and out about it...this is also somewhat related to friendship but also can be discussed in a common point of view....
'WHEN FORGIVING BECOMES THE ORDER OF THE DAY',the topic itself implies that im gna discuss about some problem...i will not directly give out the problem but will definitely give an overview of the proble.When a person very very close to u does something really bad and which really hurts u...what will be ur reaction?....u cant tell him openly and also u can give him up in front of others..u will be in all kind of confusions...yea thats what happened to me too...A very close friend of mine due to some misunderstanding did a big mistake which affected me and also hurted me very badly for 1 whole night...i couldnt directly figure him out that u have done such and such a thing and also i cant let him down in front of others by scolding him...it was deadly killing me...but still talking would have solved the problem easily but myself ego didnt let me talk to him....i was unable to concentrate on any kind of work whole heartedly...but finally after a long period of silence he opened up and talked to me and as usual i had to forgive everything without any serious decision....whatever serious the problem maybe it mostly ends up in forgiving when it comes to close people...it was really a bad night 4 me...a big problem finally ended up in nothing...thanks for the mediator who is always between us as usual....
I just wanted to share this bcz dont let ur ego go in front of u wen it comes to ur friends or close people...forgiving solves problems easily...
Thursday, January 28, 2010
building relationships-meaning of life
hi guys,it has been a long time since i published my last post...actually i was given some heavy tasks and had to fullfill them to make my name to be remembered by many...
I think so far i have discussed many topics related to 'MEANING OF LIFE'.So today's topic is also related to my last post but i hope to make it more interesting...
As i have mentioned it is not that easy to build a relationship with someone...it may be of the same sex or opposite sex,it is alwaysan interesting thing..Ihave had many experiences on this thing...Especially when we move onto a new place we really find it hard at the beginning to associate with people.It happens specially when you move on to a place with new culture and traditions..for example moving from an asian country to Europe country makes it always hard to make new relationships because we find it hard to adopt the new culture...
First of all when we meet a totally new person we usually dont feel like talking but surely want them to get introduced.....the interesting thing is that usually when a boy goes with another boy and meets a girl who is familiar to his friend,the boy definitely expects his friend to introduce that girl to him..thats the nature of youngsters...So usually when we try to build a relationship we should be patient..truly it is a time consuming task....it may take months to first make the person start talking to you freely...also you should not be too sensitive and emotional with a person who is new or just introduced....always should not keep on talking to him/her and make that person feel bored....Another thing that everybody should keep in mind when building a new relationship is that we shouldn't go deep in to that persons personal problems and details...we should make them come and tell us the problem...it really makes the relationship stronger and healthier....through experience i would like mention that the person with whom we plan to build a relationship should not feel that we r trying to get closer to him/her by any chance....and also if we feel that they are trying to avoid us,we should never go and ask them "Y?"...We should let them go on their own way and finally they will definitely reach us....So i think i have given u something interesting for the day...that's it for now...hope to write something on MILAN 2010 in the next post....bye for now
I think so far i have discussed many topics related to 'MEANING OF LIFE'.So today's topic is also related to my last post but i hope to make it more interesting...
As i have mentioned it is not that easy to build a relationship with someone...it may be of the same sex or opposite sex,it is alwaysan interesting thing..Ihave had many experiences on this thing...Especially when we move onto a new place we really find it hard at the beginning to associate with people.It happens specially when you move on to a place with new culture and traditions..for example moving from an asian country to Europe country makes it always hard to make new relationships because we find it hard to adopt the new culture...
First of all when we meet a totally new person we usually dont feel like talking but surely want them to get introduced.....the interesting thing is that usually when a boy goes with another boy and meets a girl who is familiar to his friend,the boy definitely expects his friend to introduce that girl to him..thats the nature of youngsters...So usually when we try to build a relationship we should be patient..truly it is a time consuming task....it may take months to first make the person start talking to you freely...also you should not be too sensitive and emotional with a person who is new or just introduced....always should not keep on talking to him/her and make that person feel bored....Another thing that everybody should keep in mind when building a new relationship is that we shouldn't go deep in to that persons personal problems and details...we should make them come and tell us the problem...it really makes the relationship stronger and healthier....through experience i would like mention that the person with whom we plan to build a relationship should not feel that we r trying to get closer to him/her by any chance....and also if we feel that they are trying to avoid us,we should never go and ask them "Y?"...We should let them go on their own way and finally they will definitely reach us....So i think i have given u something interesting for the day...that's it for now...hope to write something on MILAN 2010 in the next post....bye for now
Saturday, January 2, 2010
friendship-the meaning of life
At the moment im a student of the Srm University of chennai,India.In my period of 19 years in eart i hace had various types of experiences which make up my blog "MEANING OF LIFE".So far in my life I have spent more time with my friends more than anyone else..At every stage of my life Friends play a major role..Let it be school life or university life,they are the ones who make it meaningful and also keep me alive..
So its very important for me to tell about my friends in my blog which talks about life....In our life we meet various type of people at various situations.Not all of them make an impact on the bottom of our heart...those some who make an impact are the ones whom we dont want to forget throughout our lives and whom we really want to keep in touch....Similarly i also had various people crossing in my life right from grade one of my schooling life...those days we were not so exposed...so we used to do what our parents say.....my parents too are not an exception...every morning they used to advice me on how to interact with people and only to talk with friends....so at that age i didnt really know who good friends...so i went in search of people who study well....those were the good people for me at that time....to be frank i had a friend called senthooran who was really a close friend to me from the start and still maintains that relationship...i just dont want to miss such a character.......another person i should mention is naveenan...we three used to top the class at that time,but naveenan was not a character whom anyone will want to interact with...that was how he was brought up...so he is not responsible for that...i really feel sorry for him till now...then as we moved on 3-4 years at the great school of all,trinity college i understood whom i shud keep in touch with...i started to gain some exposure.....then came the new friends whom we all used to go around the places all time.....we just got the extreme fun out of the school life..especially when we were studyng in 9th 1oth and 11th classe....we just did everyhtng which came into our minds...starting right from imitating teachers,throwing eggs to teachers,not letting the teacher to take classe and specially one thing i would like to mention is the day when we all wanted to taste beer..finally we did that also in which i played a major role....then came our first division in school life...the ordinary level (10th) examination...we continued our fun journey to the exams too which i dont want to forget at all...then we were divided in seperate groups according to our professional streams...still we took the promise to stay together which we are following still..i eventually wanted to study in the english medium where i was put in with the sinhala students where i got another set of friends...especially to mention manilka who was one of my best friend....he was such a person who doesnt get tensed for anything at all...which is hard to do....then when i went for classes i had some other people crossing my life which i shud mention.....one girl kaviesthaa who made a great turning in my life.....my friends always used to kid me in front of her calling me by the name "kalla kaviesthaa" which created some affection in my bottom heart which i felt sometime after...one day she called my friend and adviced him not to kid me anymore..then i realised tht im dng smthng wrong.then i took it off from my mind..but still i cant forget those beatiful memories....
at the latter part of my shooling career came a great friend calle lakshitha who was one of a character rare to find.....i will never give up him for any cost....then moving onto uni life i have some great friends at srm who really made my life meaninful...satish,sharath,karthik,irfan and many more who make my life happening....mean while now at this matured age i also found some nice sweet sisters called ramla from india and gajani from srilanka who help me alot and i will also keep in touch with them
so far i have told about the great people in my life.....friendship is something which makes the life meaningful.....some say that friends get together to do all bad things in the world...thats totally wrong......we all get together to get those bad experiences which leads to a good life.....i need friends with me at all times.....i will not give up any of them at any cost....they make my life live and meaningful.......they got the power of doing that...so i would like to advice u all....please make friends and select them not on their performance just using their heart....finally "treat your wife/husband as ur best friend then life will definitely be great.......c u soon with some experience from srm
So its very important for me to tell about my friends in my blog which talks about life....In our life we meet various type of people at various situations.Not all of them make an impact on the bottom of our heart...those some who make an impact are the ones whom we dont want to forget throughout our lives and whom we really want to keep in touch....Similarly i also had various people crossing in my life right from grade one of my schooling life...those days we were not so exposed...so we used to do what our parents say.....my parents too are not an exception...every morning they used to advice me on how to interact with people and only to talk with friends....so at that age i didnt really know who good friends...so i went in search of people who study well....those were the good people for me at that time....to be frank i had a friend called senthooran who was really a close friend to me from the start and still maintains that relationship...i just dont want to miss such a character.......another person i should mention is naveenan...we three used to top the class at that time,but naveenan was not a character whom anyone will want to interact with...that was how he was brought up...so he is not responsible for that...i really feel sorry for him till now...then as we moved on 3-4 years at the great school of all,trinity college i understood whom i shud keep in touch with...i started to gain some exposure.....then came the new friends whom we all used to go around the places all time.....we just got the extreme fun out of the school life..especially when we were studyng in 9th 1oth and 11th classe....we just did everyhtng which came into our minds...starting right from imitating teachers,throwing eggs to teachers,not letting the teacher to take classe and specially one thing i would like to mention is the day when we all wanted to taste beer..finally we did that also in which i played a major role....then came our first division in school life...the ordinary level (10th) examination...we continued our fun journey to the exams too which i dont want to forget at all...then we were divided in seperate groups according to our professional streams...still we took the promise to stay together which we are following still..i eventually wanted to study in the english medium where i was put in with the sinhala students where i got another set of friends...especially to mention manilka who was one of my best friend....he was such a person who doesnt get tensed for anything at all...which is hard to do....then when i went for classes i had some other people crossing my life which i shud mention.....one girl kaviesthaa who made a great turning in my life.....my friends always used to kid me in front of her calling me by the name "kalla kaviesthaa" which created some affection in my bottom heart which i felt sometime after...one day she called my friend and adviced him not to kid me anymore..then i realised tht im dng smthng wrong.then i took it off from my mind..but still i cant forget those beatiful memories....
at the latter part of my shooling career came a great friend calle lakshitha who was one of a character rare to find.....i will never give up him for any cost....then moving onto uni life i have some great friends at srm who really made my life meaninful...satish,sharath,karthik,irfan and many more who make my life happening....mean while now at this matured age i also found some nice sweet sisters called ramla from india and gajani from srilanka who help me alot and i will also keep in touch with them
so far i have told about the great people in my life.....friendship is something which makes the life meaningful.....some say that friends get together to do all bad things in the world...thats totally wrong......we all get together to get those bad experiences which leads to a good life.....i need friends with me at all times.....i will not give up any of them at any cost....they make my life live and meaningful.......they got the power of doing that...so i would like to advice u all....please make friends and select them not on their performance just using their heart....finally "treat your wife/husband as ur best friend then life will definitely be great.......c u soon with some experience from srm
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